{"id":2412,"date":"2021-12-03T06:38:57","date_gmt":"2021-12-03T05:38:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monblogeur.tech\/index.php\/2021\/12\/03\/my-father-in-law-announced-my-miscarriage-on-facebook-new-york-post\/"},"modified":"2021-12-03T06:38:57","modified_gmt":"2021-12-03T05:38:57","slug":"my-father-in-law-announced-my-miscarriage-on-facebook-new-york-post","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monblogeur.tech\/index.php\/2021\/12\/03\/my-father-in-law-announced-my-miscarriage-on-facebook-new-york-post\/","title":{"rendered":"My father-in-law announced my miscarriage on Facebook &#8211; New York Post"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cfbc967f0983488262956e73eca9483a\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:10px 0 10px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3859091246952232\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- blok -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3859091246952232\" data-ad-slot=\"1334354390\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p> \t\tThanks for contacting us. We&#039;ve received your submission.\t<br \/>Unfortunately, miscarriage is quite a common phenomenon &#8211; an estimated one in four pregnancies end in miscarriage.<br \/>It&#8217;s an extremely emotional and distressing time for everyone, especially the woman mourning the death of her unborn child.<br \/>Very personal, this is also an unfortunate event many choose not to reveal to others, even their closest ones; it can sometimes take up years for them to open up.<br \/>However, one woman&#8217;s been left particularly upset and disturbed as her father-in-law announced her miscarriage on Facebook without her permission.<br \/>She shared the heartbreaking story on a Reddit post.<br \/>After noticing some bleeding around the 10th week, she rushed to the hospital where doctors assured her everything was fine.<br \/>A few weeks later, she went for a scan, where she was told the baby had died at around the ninth week of pregnancy.<br \/>&#8221;The image on the screen will haunt us both forever.<br \/>&#8221;My mum was with us at the time and explained everything to my side of the family.&nbsp;&#8221;<br \/>Unable to face anyone, she asked her partner to contact everyone in his family.<br \/>&#8221;We made them promise not to put anything on Facebook.&#8221;<br \/>The two were devastated: &#8221;I&#8217;d been carrying my dead baby for weeks.<br \/>&#8221;I finally broke down.&#8221;<br \/>But it only got worse in the evening when she checked her phone and realized her father-in-law had posted about the miscarriage.<br \/>&#8221;By the time we noticed it already had over 200 likes and a bunch of comments.<br \/>&#8221;I was devastated and angry&#8230;so very angry,&#8221; she wrote.<br \/>&#8221;This was our baby.<br \/>&#8221;My baby.<br \/>&#8221;Not his.<br \/>&#8221;Even if we wanted to announce it publicly it should have been on our terms.&#8221;<br \/>She said she instantly locked down her Facebook and her husband&#8217;s inbox was quickly filled with condolence messages.<br \/>She expressed how all of her trust had been lost and she wasn&#8217;t sure if she&#8217;ll ever be able to get over this and forgive him.<br \/>&#8221;I can&#8217;t bear to face him.<br \/>&#8221;I&#8217;ve already canceled plans for Christmas.<br \/>&#8221;This has been one of the most painful experiences of my life, both physically and mentally.&#8221;<br \/>Fellow Redditors were, of course, disturbed by what they&#8217;d read, with one commenting: &#8221;This is f*****g disgusting!<br \/>&#8221;Time to go no contact with FIL.&#8221;<br \/>Another one wrote: &#8221;You have more than a right to feel angry that someone has shared your private grief for others to see freely online.&#8221;<br \/><em>This story originally appeared <a href=\"https:\/\/www.the-sun.com\/lifestyle\/4189058\/father-in-law-announces-miscarriage-facebook\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">on The Sun<\/a> and was reproduced here with permission. <\/em><br \/>Share Selection<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2021\/12\/02\/my-father-in-law-announced-my-miscarriage-on-facebook\/\">source<\/a><\/p>\n<!--CusAds0-->\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks for contacting us. 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